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Tuesday of the Third Week of Lent – Mass Readings

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Reading 1

DN 3:25, 34-43

Azariah stood up in the fire and prayed aloud:
“For your name’s sake, O Lord, do not deliver us up forever,
or make void your covenant.
Do not take away your mercy from us,
for the sake of Abraham, your beloved,
Isaac your servant, and Israel your holy one,
To whom you promised to multiply their offspring
like the stars of heaven,
or the sand on the shore of the sea.
For we are reduced, O Lord, beyond any other nation,
brought low everywhere in the world this day
because of our sins.
We have in our day no prince, prophet, or leader,
no burnt offering, sacrifice, oblation, or incense,
no place to offer first fruits, to find favor with you.
But with contrite heart and humble spirit
let us be received;
As though it were burnt offerings of rams and bullocks,
or thousands of fat lambs,
So let our sacrifice be in your presence today
as we follow you unreservedly;
for those who trust in you cannot be put to shame.
And now we follow you with our whole heart,
we fear you and we pray to you.
Do not let us be put to shame,
but deal with us in your kindness and great mercy.
Deliver us by your wonders,
and bring glory to your name, O Lord.”

Responsorial Psalm

PS 25:4-5AB, 6 AND 7BC, 8-9

R. (6a) Remember your mercies, O Lord.
Your ways, O LORD, make known to me;
teach me your paths,
Guide me in your truth and teach me,
for you are God my savior.
R. Remember your mercies, O Lord.
Remember that your compassion, O LORD,
and your kindness are from of old.
In your kindness remember me,
because of your goodness, O LORD.
R. Remember your mercies, O Lord.
Good and upright is the LORD;
thus he shows sinners the way.
He guides the humble to justice,
he teaches the humble his way.
R. Remember your mercies, O Lord.
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Gospel

MT 18:21-35

Peter approached Jesus and asked him,
“Lord, if my brother sins against me,
how often must I forgive him?
As many as seven times?”
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Jesus answered,
“I say to you, not seven times but seventy-seven times.
That is why the Kingdom of heaven may be likened to a king
who decided to settle accounts with his servants.
When he began the accounting,
a debtor was brought before him who owed him a huge amount.
Since he had no way of paying it back,
his master ordered him to be sold,
along with his wife, his children, and all his property,
in payment of the debt.
At that, the servant fell down, did him homage, and said,
‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back in full.’
Moved with compassion the master of that servant
let him go and forgave him the loan.
When that servant had left, he found one of his fellow servants
who owed him a much smaller amount.
He seized him and started to choke him, demanding,
‘Pay back what you owe.’
Falling to his knees, his fellow servant begged him,
‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back.’
But he refused.
Instead, he had him put in prison
until he paid back the debt.
Now when his fellow servants saw what had happened,
they were deeply disturbed, and went to their master
and reported the whole affair.
His master summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked servant!
I forgave you your entire debt because you begged me to.
Should you not have had pity on your fellow servant,
as I had pity on you?’
Then in anger his master handed him over to the torturers
until he should pay back the whole debt.
So will my heavenly Father do to you,
unless each of you forgives your brother from your heart.”
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The Holy Priesthood

This Video Testimony is a wee bit “Pollyannish” and sickeningly sacharin,  but doable by God’s grace.

The Priest in this video sounds more believable. His witness seems emotionally honest.

I do not like the nun’s witness – I consider it less emotionally honest.

Forgiving from the Heart ~ Blessed Pope John Paul II

Blessed Pope John Paul II

“Certainly forgiveness does not come spontaneously or naturally to people,” he wrote. “Forgiving from the Heart can sometimes be heroic. . . . Thanks to the healing power of love, even the most wounded heart can experience the liberating encounter with forgiveness.”

“Real peace is not just a matter of structures and mechanisms,” wrote Pope John Paul II. “It rests above all on the adoption of a style of human coexistence marked by mutual acceptance and a capacity to forgive from the heart. We all need to be forgiven by others, so we must all be ready to forgive. Asking and granting forgiveness is something profoundly worthy of every one of us.”

EWTN.com – Cardinal Cottier on Pope John Paul’s Request for Forgiveness

EWTN.com – Cardinal Cottier on Pope John Paul’s Request for Forgiveness.

 

Cardinal Cottier on Pope John Paul’s Request for Forgiveness

90-Year-Old Prelate Remembers Vatican II and the Polish Pontiff

By Jose Antonio Varela Vidal

VATICAN CITY, JULY 11, 2012 (Zenit.org).- When one speaks with Cardinal Georges Cottier, one is before not only a theologian and witness of many important events of the 20th and 21st centuries but, above all, a humble Dominican friar, who never ceases to be amazed by all that God and the Church have enabled him to live.

In this interview with ZENIT, held in his residence in the Vatican, he spoke with nostalgia of his “boss,” Pope John Paul II, recognizing that many of his acts as Pontiff were a legacy of the spirit of Vatican II, while others were marked by an intuition, which later opened paths to humanity in its search for peace and understanding.

ZENIT: Pope John Paul II, with whom you worked so closely, is now Blessed. In your opinion, what were his main contributions to the world and to the Church?

Cardinal Cottier: There were many. I think he was a man of hope. When he said: “Do not be afraid,” he certainly said it for the countries occupied by Communism, but he also said it because he saw that there was a certain decadence in the West. I would say he awakened the Church everywhere. Then, his love of life, this was fantastic and he witnessed this love of life in a life profoundly marked by illness, and young people understood him.

ZENIT: As papal theologian during part of that long period, what was your most important intervention?

Cardinal Cottier: I had to revise all the texts spoken or signed by the Pope, given that — with so many employed — unity of thought, legitimacy and also clarity had to be seen, and this was practically my daily work. I identify my great joys with the Pope’s great acts. For example, two years after my arrival, I had to read the Catechism of the Catholic Church and I read it, I remember, with great joy and I was able to make my observations calmly. And then there are the encyclicals, which were very interesting for me, as some of them were entrusted to the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith. There, as consultor, I had the opportunity to take part in working groups, and I was able to see and discover the genius of Cardinal Ratzinger, present Pope, who had a gift to lead the working groups, to stress the line, to listen, so everything was wonderful. Another experience which really impressed me was the preparation of the Holy Year.

ZENIT: Of the year 2000? We still remember that “purification of the memory,” desired by the Pope.

Cardinal Cottier: Yes, I was president of the Historical Theological Commission and at that time the Apostolic Letter Tertio Millennio Adveniente was being issued. And the Pope had the idea to ask forgiveness for the sins of Christians in the past, something good but which left some perplexed. I learned that in the first meeting he addressed the cardinals and many were perplexed, but he had a great intuition. And we had to prepare some scientific congresses on this issue — not without difficulty — because the subject was new and this perplexity was manifested also in some theologians. So we decided which questions might be useful and we thought of three: the first subject was slavery in Africa, the deportation, especially to North and South America. The second topic was the problem of the Inquisition and then, in the third place, the responsibility of Christians in regard to anti-Semitism, although we distinguished between anti-Semitism and anti-Judaism.

ZENIT: The Pope insisted on a public act, no?

Cardinal Cottier: It’s another great memory — more personal. Although the Pope was already very tired, he carried out the whole program of the Holy Year with extraordinary courage. I remember especially March 12, when he designed a beautiful liturgy of petition for forgiveness, and I was able to see the Pope, leaning on the cross, while those in charge read a prayer. It was a beautiful liturgy to which we contributed.

ZENIT: Do you think that, after this petition for forgiveness, Catholics have seen the Church in another way?

Cardinal Cottier: I think that those who wish to, do so. When we spoke of the program, there was a Dominican historian Father who taught Church History and who said: “ask forgiveness for true events, not for myths.” All this, I think, has been well studied and the result is that afterwards many have continued working in this direction. So I think that with this we have done a service. And then for me, for Christians, for Catholics, this new way of seeing has been very liberating.

ZENIT: Has the world recognized this forgiveness?

Cardinal Cottier: The world … perhaps, not sufficiently. The problem that interests me personally at present is that at the political level this can be similar and resolve some tragic problems, including hostility, hatred between peoples, in which there is no way out without forgiveness. Because if mutual hatred persists, the spirit of war is maintained, so that peace is not possible without forgiveness. This is what we uphold in the Social Doctrine of the Church.

ZENIT: Does this work, perhaps, for present wars, some of which are of religion?

Cardinal Cottier: It works in all. Let’s take the dramatic situation of the Middle East, for example, in some Muslim countries such as Iraq now, Syria tomorrow, among others, where there are minorities that are being killed, and where Christians are the real victims of this. First forgiveness is asked of God and then forgiveness is asked of the rest. That is why what was an idea of John Paul II, and which the present Pope has followed, is the great meeting of Assisi, because if there is a genuine religious background in man, the relationship with God does not lead to war but to peace.

ZENIT: Although some did not understand at the time the Pope’s vision of Assisi …

Cardinal Cottier: This has been very criticized, but he made a distinction that I like very much and which says: Ecumenism is with Christians; we pray together, because we have the Bible in common and we can say together the prayer of the Our Father and all Christian prayers. At that time, he said it thus: “Let us pray together with Christians; with others we are together to pray.” It is a distinction that clarifies well and does not let us fall into confusion; in this way we see the force of the sense of God and of the religious attitude, which should be an element of peace in humanity itself. These are the fruits that we owe to John Paul II and, I would say, to the Holy Year.

ZENIT: Did you see a difference between Assisi of 1986 and last year’s ceremony?

Cardinal Cottier: I think so, that is, the first time of Assisi was an extraordinary event but, as always happens the second time, these things are no longer an event in today’s world, but it has kept the invitation to dialogue on the part of the Catholic Church. It’s very important because, you see, Muslim fundamentalism, for example, is not about persons who converse but who kill. And, where does this end? And the novelty of this year’s Assisi is that non-believers were also invited, as said in the language of Pope John Paul II, “men of good will.” Hence, I believe this is a great idea that also comes from Vatican Council II.

[Translation by ZENIT]

 

Mother Teresa On God’s Mercy and Forgiveness (Video)

“We need lots of love to forgive. And, we need lots of humility to forget. If we do not forget, we do not forgive.
That’s why it is very important to learn humility. We need to learn meekness and humility. Before we forgive somebody, we must realize we need forgiveness.” ~ Mother Teresa

God knew we’d need His Forgiveness

God knew we would mess up!

So this is why He instituted the Sacrament of Reconciliation (Confession).

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Story of the Prodigal Son is found in Saint Luke 15:11-32

The Parable of the Lost Son.

(11) Then he said, “A man had two sons,

(12) and the younger son said to his father, ‘Father, give me the share of your estate that should come to me.’ So the father divided the property between them.

(13) After a few days, the younger son collected all his belongings and set off to a distant country where he squandered his inheritance on a life of dissipation.

(14) When he had freely spent everything, a severe famine struck that country, and he found himself in dire need.

(15) So he hired himself out to one of the local citizens who sent him to his farm to tend the swine.

(16) And he longed to eat his fill of the pods on which the swine fed, but nobody gave him any.

(17) Coming to his senses he thought, ‘How many of my father’s hired workers have more than enough food to eat, but here am I, dying from hunger.

(18) I shall get up and go to my father and I shall say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you.

(19) I no longer deserve to be called your son; treat me as you would treat one of your hired workers.”’

(20) So he got up and went back to his father. While he was still a long way off, his father caught sight of him, and was filled with compassion. He ran to his son, embraced him and kissed him.

(21) His son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you; I no longer deserve to be called your son.’

(22) But his father ordered his servants, ‘Quickly bring the finest robe and put it on him; put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet.

(23) Take the fattened calf and slaughter it. Then let us celebrate with a feast,

(24) because this son of mine was dead, and has come to life again; he was lost, and has been found.’ Then the celebration began.

(25) Now the older son had been out in the field and, on his way back, as he neared the house, he heard the sound of music and dancing.

(26) He called one of the servants and asked what this might mean.

(27) The servant said to him, ‘Your brother has returned and your father has slaughtered the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.’

(28) He became angry, and when he refused to enter the house, his father came out and pleaded with him.

(29) He said to his father in reply, ‘Look, all these years I served you and not once did I disobey your orders; yet you never gave me even a young goat to feast on with my friends.

(30) But when your son returns who swallowed up your property with prostitutes, for him you slaughter the fattened calf.’

(31) He said to him, ‘My son, you are here with me always; everything I have is yours.

(32) But now we must celebrate and rejoice, because your brother was dead and has come to life again; he was lost and has been found.’”